Hi,
"One thing though. It amazes me(in a very positive way) that such a small collector did so well with such a large radient heating plate(s)and an uninsulated bucket. I guess I'm underestamating the 'real' power in the sun."
Full sunshine is about 1KW per square meter -- so there is quite a bit of power there.
Your 3X5 collector will receive solar power at about 1.5 KW (about 5000 BTU/hr) if its aimed at the sun, and its noon plus or minus a couple hours. If you build a good collector, you can capture about 60% to 70% of this.
"Also it seems that your have done much with these systems(probably an understatment)Can you give me some tips on what and where to get a fairly low cost 12v pump for the circulator (plan on powering of bat/wind/solar). I have checked on line and it seems that they are pretty high in flow rate and price. That .5gl/hr you mentioned would be great or maybe 1gl/hr. I have a very limited budget for this and the copper is going to eat-up a bunch of it. I wondered about a bilge pump but most of those are designed to sit in the bottom of a boat not inline, and I don't know irf they will take the heat."
There are some pump suppliers who specialize in PV driven pumps for solar collectors. The best known are Ivan Labs (they don't have a website, but just google for them, and you will find a bunch of outfits that sell them), and Hartel (or Hartell?) pumps.
Unfortunately, you won't like the prices. You would also need a 20 (or so) watt PV panel, and these are not so cheap these days either.
I'm not aware of any cheap way to get a PV driven pump setup -- you need a pump that runs on around 12Volts DC, and one that can take the temperatures. If you find something, please let us know!
If you can go with an AC pump, then there are more choices. Grundfos and Taco pumps are very popular as circulation pumps for hydronic heating systems. You can often find them at pretty reasonable prices on ebay. Something like the low flow end of the Grundfos UP series would probably be fine. You might try a local HVAC shop, and see if they have some used ones -- they are pretty durable pumps, so a used one might be fine.
If you use an AC pump you will also need a controller to turn if off and on. The most common approach is to use a differential controller -- these turn the pump on when the collector temperature is 5 or 10F hotter than the storage tank temperature. The most common brand is Goldline. These are not that cheap either. A "poor mans" controller can be done with a $10 thermal snap switch. This is a switch that closes when the temperature goes above some set level. You can put one in the collector, and set it to turn the pump on when the temperature goes above (say) 100F. Its not quite as precise as the differential controlers because it does not sence the storage tank temperature, but it should work OK. The PV driven pumps also don't sence storage tank temperature. When you consider that your three 3X5 collectors might be collecting (1.5KW)(3 collectors)(60% efic) = 2700 watts, then having a pump that uses 50 or so watts does not seem so bad?
The thermal snap switches are used for attic vent fans, so places like Home Depot carry replacement switches that should work fine.
I think you mentioned that you were going to mount the panels on a sunroom roof. If the roof has a low pitch, then the collectors will NOT work well for space heating in the winter. But, low pitch is OK for domestic hot water heating. they also need to face more or less south (say within 30 degrees). You can download the "radiation on collector" program from my site, and see how collector tilt and orientation effect how much energy you collect:
http://www.builditsolar.com/References/SunChartRS.htm
Good Luck!