Hi Terramir - yes, Ron has it about right, you should read over our page at otherpower.com - I would suggest you get 'Wind Power Workshop' by Hugh Piggott and perhaps get a copy of his plans. Wind Power Workshop is fun to read - it will answer all these questions and many that you'll be asking next I suppose.
Some short answers...
A. If you make a certain amount of windings per coil will this give you a fixed or variable voltage? depending on the wind speed or does the current vary with wind speed?
Voltage is related directly to rpm, and directly to the number of turns in a phase. (double either one and voltage will double)
B. I know that depending on the gauge of the wire the current capacity varies.
Yes- thinner wire has more resistance and can handle less current, but you can fit more in and have higher voltage. For any given wind turbine design you need to get the wire gage and the number of turns just about right or it likely won't work.
C. I looked at that experimenter kit at windstuff now, however the question is if I build a simular design do I have to use wedge shaped magnets or will any kind do?
The size/shape of the magnets is pretty important. There are surely other shapes that would work well with the same stator - so long as the size/spacing is reasonable. So - you don't have to use wedge shaped magnets but 'any kind' won't do.
D. if the magnets I see have the magnetic poles on the flat surfaces would that be ok?
Yes - that's normally how NdFeB magnets are and that's what everyone is using.
E. As for the controller I need for wind power, on those silly days where the average wind of 7.5mph is far exceeded will i need a dump load or can it just disconnect?
It's not usually good practice to disconnect a wind turbine ever. If you're very attentive (you use your brain and a switch as the controller) you can shut down the machine by braking it to save your batteries. That's not very practical for the long term though.
F. just curious questions I could use some formulas on nominal voltage vs windings, And with a 3 phase motor to the currents or the voltages add up once you rectify?
I'm afraid I don't understand the question.... ;-)