"How hard should this be to turn? It turns smoothly but offers a good deal of resistance even with no load on it. No problem turning it by hand at 60+ rpm or so though. "
The only resistance should be that of the bearings of the hub. If you have seals and heavy grease it may be not negligible. If you remove the stator and the thing is much easier to turn then you may have a problem. I would expect you to hand crank it to 200 rpm with no trouble.
"If I short any two of leads the resistence increases and it has a noticeable cog as it is turned and if I short all three of the leads it turns smoothly with even more resistence. I think that is as it should be."
Yes that is as it should be.
I assume you are measuring your volts from the star point to each output lead when you say centre.
The difference in voltage does seem a lot, I would expect things to be very close. This and the fact that you can only crank it to 60 rpm does make me think you may have a short in one coil.
You are on the low end of voltage and frequency for accurate measurements with some cheap ac meters but even so the comparison between like things should be correct even if the absolute voltage is in error.
Remove the stator and see if you can crank it easily, if there is a difference with stator removed then I do suspect there is a problem.
Flux