I get sick of people calling the truth "harsh".
We see some really stupendously stupid ideas and every time we point it out the person with the idea gets all offended and calls it "harsh".
I don't consider it harsh, I consider it sound advice to a clueless individual who either does not have any common sense or is not using their brain.
I guess the main point to my comment is if you seek advice and don't like the response then walk away and accept that the people took time to answer you honestly, if in a curt manner. Usually this reaction is from someone with a day or 2 of membership here, too.
This is the internet, after all. Just keep asking and some idiot will give you the answer you want, but it may not be the honest answer you deserve.
This is where you call for my beheading because I dumped raw, honest response to your comment.
Cheers.
TomW