Welcome aboard, Greenhorn!
I got started about 2 years ago, and this board has been very helpful. If I could make a suggestion about your plan (not so much about the equipment), I would say that if you don't have a lot of knowledge to start with, don't connect to the grid right away.
I have spent the last 2 years developping my "parallel" grid around my acreage. It specifically does not connect to the utility and I am careful to make it not possible to accidentally do so, either. My reason for doing this is that if I was grid-tied, my desire would be to leave it alone afterward. I wouldn't want to change things or add things, because I would be obliged to get the power company involved again for a new certification process. I would be required to buy certain specific devices to make the grid-tie safe for the utility use, and then there's the fees and extra meter that has to be read...
There is nothing wrong with being grid tied, but if you want to BOTH learn about the equipment, and optimize your costs, starting out grid-tied won't do.
At my current rate of progress, I could safely and correctly grid tie next year. Maybe I will, maybe I won't. I just about have all the equipment I need either already hooked up, or waiting until the proper buildings have been built for them. And I got here spending many, many thousands of dollars less than I would have if I'd gone in feet first.
That's my philosophy, for what it's worth. Whatever you choose, we love to help. Feel free to ask questions as you go.