With 20 mph winds on an average basis you are a good candidate for windpower.
Here's some things to consider: Building one good sized windmill vs 4 of a similar ability to produce electricity.
Every mill will have to have a separate tower, you do not want a HAWT close to the ground, the wind gusts badly there, and can cause stress issues etc,you want it up in that nice clean airflow at a higher distance. So is one well built tower going to be cheaper than 4? Yes.
Also you have to factor in the run of copper to your batteries or point of use.
Even though a single run of ,say #10 copper is more expensive than 1 run of #18 copper it will not be cheaper than 4! (this is an example only)
Also you'd have to build 4 separate mills, duplicating all the metal and fittings.
Yes a smaller windmill is cheaper than a large one, but all factoring together you would be better off building one good quality well built windmill than 4 smaller ones.
The efficiency of most smaller mills is poor. Of course there is a happy medium, i'm not suggesting you build (or buy) a 20 Kw machine. I'm just suggesting that one mill say of a 10 or 12' diameter would be a better producer and cheaper than 4 3' mills.
It is still not a good idea to put a windmill on top of a house, but if you think it won't cause sound vibrations through the structure and keep you awake all night that is your choice.
There are plenty of examples on how to wire your windmill on this site, as well as a lot of design information. Look through it, do searches, if you're well informed and ask intelligent questions you will find many happy to help you out.
You also have other things to consider, you will want any windmill you put up easy to take down in that event a hurricane is forecasted! You may build it strong,it may furl well, but as you already know a hurricane is nothing to mess with!
Many people here do start out with smaller machines for their first build. It will give you experience.