I know the defacement of your website during a dispute must have looked like too much to be a simple coincidence, but I am convinced it was. This 'status-x' character that did the deed appears to be a script-kiddy who is making a hobby of defacing websites and has been very, very busy at it lately (your's was one of dozens of its work that day). You can find examples of its and others' defacements with a google search, but I refuse to give it any more noteriety than I have already.
The lesson illustrated here: when you're about to type something in a public forum, think about whether or not it's something you would say to another in person or published in a newspaper with your name attached. In responding to what you may feel as an attack, take a deep breath and step away from the keyboard first. Take a walk before responding, before saying something that google or archive.org will retell until eternity.
