Hello Edh,
Batteries once bought will die. How you get there is up to you.
Books are written to answer your question. Lots of different believes about what is best.
I go for the balanced approach. The battery will die someday, the battery's purpose is to store energy.
Over sizing a battery today is NO guarantee it will last forever.
Only takes one bad error to cause damage, like go on vacation, controller dies, batteries die.
Once you may recover, twice... you have to go with how lucky you are. Me... NOT lucky.
SOC state of charge. This can be a very misleading term.
A charge controller will stop charging the battery once a voltage is hit.
SOC is assumed to be 100%... Not true, until a finishing charge is done it's not 100%
Most likely mid 90's, so lets say 95%.
The finishing charge will take 5 times or more energy to charge than from 80-85%.
Charging 80-85% is the most efficient area on the battery, very close to 1ah in/out.
A battery operated at 90% to 95% is an inefficient use of the battery.
The energy to charge the battery from 90 to 95% is 2-3 times more than 80-85%.
Battery discharged to 50% would not cause me any sleep. 65% I would not start the generator unless over night I would expect it to go much below 50%. I would not spend more than a day below 50%.
The deep cycle battery is rated to go to 80% discharge. I would try not to go there, but would not hurt myself trying to prevent it. If it happened more than once or twice I would look at what your doing...
Once a quarter you must do a finishing charge. It's one of the good things to do, but do not do it every day, it's bad thing too.
Sulfating = sum of the time * %discharged.
Finishing undoes some of the sulfating, not all, becomes an accumulative effect.
Under charging, over charging both cause damage.
A battery is made to be used. Be nice.
If your running your generator more than once a week you should look at your power source. Solar may not be the way to go. Got any geothermal, hydro, wave, tide?
Someone that operates at 10% discharge, will have a battery 5 times bigger than mine. I will buy a cheap battery and have it last 1/4 the time the other does. While that is going on, my money is invested growing, batteries are getting better, then I will buy another cheap battery and smile.
Have fun,
Scott.