I've thought about series hybrids before. Lemme take a look at your numbers.
My 8hp diesel runs 6 hours on a gallon of fuel while driving a 3000 watt load.
That's about 4 horsepower. You might try slightly different loads to see if you're at the optimum point on the efficiency scale. Supposedly gas engines produce the best efficiency at their highest rpms, but diesels don't.
A gallon of diesel contains 139,000 btu. That's 40,736 watt-hours of energy. You've extracted (3000 * 6) 18,000 watt-hours from it. This makes your diesel about 44% efficient.
By comparison, a gas engine may have an efficiency of 26%. That means your diesel is (.44 - .26 / .26) 69% more efficient. There are other factors, but if you start with a car that gets 30 mpg, you might get 50 mpg with the hybrid.
Also, I don't think you really need the transmission. I'm no expert, but I think most electric conversions do away with it.
Here's something else to think about: 12 horsepower = 30,500 btu/hr = 0.265 gallons of gasoline (at 115,000 btu) per hour. At 50 miles per gallon, 0.265 gallons of gasoline takes you 13.25 miles in an hour.
I can't say I'm convinced by your other improvements, or that you'll get anywhere near 100 mpg. Personally, I would start with a much smaller car, or at least something more aerodynamic. But really the benefits of being able to charge from the grid, both cost and fuel security, sound like they make the project worthwhile. Sounds like something I should think about again.