You should do well with the bigger magnets. The total magnetic circuit length is 2" so you could reasonably work with a 1.5" air gap. This would comfortably let you use a stator up to 1 1/4" thick.
Choose your turns for a slightly lower cut in than for direct connection, it will cut in in very light winds in star. It will get into stall quite quickly and on other than the lightest wind days you will probably be better in delta.
Although it is overpowered in star I doubt that you will stall in delta and you will have something that will really perform in the better winds with it in delta. I think it unlikely that you will need to do anything to avoid stall in delta, shifting the turns from 100% in star to 57% in delta should get your load curve right up where the prop needs it.
Most likely you will find it better in the end to let it change to delta early and not switch back to star unless the wind really drops. The disappointing thing about star/delta changing is that on certain days the thing spends its life in the wrong mode.
If you get consistent low wind days it may stay in star all day, on better days it will probably be better to let it stay in delta rather than try to use the few seconds when the wind drops enough for it to be better in star.
You will find the transition from star to delta virtually unnoticeable but the transition from delta to star will be fairly abrupt as the speed comes down.
Just one other point you might consider, the star delta switching is messy. Delta performance will not be ideal but you will more than gain over leaving it permanently in star. Star Jerry connection is likely to give similar results and the switching is easier. The Jerry connection is more efficient than delta.
In the past I have tried series parallel and star delta, they are a big improvement over not having any matching at all, I haven't tried star/Jerry under wind conditions but I see no problem.
This was my initial starting point with permanent magnet alternators, after coming to this from wound field machines I was never happy with the simple sit in star and stall method. I finally went on to boost converters to replace the star/delta and the last machine has been a buck converter with mppt.
Keep us informed with the results.
Flux