I think Alan is correct. I have experience with 3 and 4 wire guyed towers.
If you plan to tilt the tower with anything heavy on the top, I would use 4 wires. The 2 wires at 90 degrees from the direction you will be lowering it from will help guide the tower up and down. On my generator towers, I loosen the 90 deg wires slightly so they will not put the tower in a bind when raising and lowering. Nothing is level on my property.
I also work with weather equipment frequently that's mounted on 10 meter (33ft)towers. 3 guy wires are normally used on these aluminum lattice type towers and they are really light. They do have very strong hinges and a lot of concrete where they are attached to the ground. The load at the top is less than 5 lbs. 2 men can raise and lower these towers with little trouble.
Some large towers have 3 guys and they use cranes to service them.
Why don't you try an experiment? Attach 3 guy wires to the top of a 5 to 10 foot pole and stake them to the ground. Make a hinge point for the tower on the ground. Hoist it into the air as you would do with the larger tower. Next put 4 wires on it and hoist again. See which is works best for you.
Hope this helps.