Thanks for all of the helpful comments and links. I see that I was not very clear when I tried to describe my tower. There is a 20 foot tall fixed tower that is held up with three guy wires. The top of this 20 foot tower is attached to the middle of the 40 foot tower. When the tower is erect it will be 45 feet tall, with the top 5 feet being used to mount the Dan-built alternator / turbine assembly. This is held up with another three guy wires that are attached just under the swept area of the blades. So the 40 foot tower is really fixed in position at the top with three guys, and the middle with three guys (it is attached to the 20 foot tower here), and at the bottom with a clamp of some sort that is yet to be designed.
My plan to initially erect the tower is to first raise and guy the 20 foot tower. I will leave a hoisting cable across the top of this tower attached to the middle of the 40 foot tower. With the bottom end of the 40 foot tower somehow constrained by the base of the 20 foot tower I'll use a pickup truck to raise the 40 foot tower. I think the hoisting cable will need to pass through a large eyelet of some kind to keep it from falling to the side. When the 40 foot tower is temporarily held in place with the hoisting cable I'll tighten the three guys coming from the top of the 40 foot tower to the same anchor points used to hold up the 20 foot tower. Then I can insert the pin that connects a bracket at the middle of the 40 foot tower to the middle of the top of the 20 foot tower. With the pin in place, I can remove the hoisting cable.
To lower the turbine for maintenance I simply un-anchor one of the top guys and use a light-weight cable attached to the bottom of the 40 foot tower to control the speed. I think only a light-weight winch will be required to control the descent. Since the entire assembly is on a hillside, I don't need to lower the turbine head to the level of the tower base, but the head will be lower than the pivot point at the top of the 20 foot tower.
Since I described the pipes I intended to use I've found better pipe sizes, I think. Our local seller of pipes and steel stocks 6" schedule 40 as well as 6" 12 guage steel tubing which will mate with about 1/16" clearance. I would then use the 6" schedule 40 pipe, which has a wall thickness of about 0.25" for fittings and the 12 guage tubing for the long pieces of the tower which are all 20 feet long. I think about 1 foot of overlap, pinned with a bolt or welded will adequately reinforce the stress points.
Sorry for being so long-winded...
-Lee