Hi Ron,
Yes the circular welds were a 5/8 hole I drilled completely through and welded it on each side to the 3-1/2 pipe.
On the tower base, the 4 inch pipe drops over a piece of 3-1/2 inch pipe....I have yet to weld all of this into position. There will also be a brace added between the tower and the gin pole, actually the upright piece in the photos is the gin pole in the raised position.
Generally a 1/2inch size larger on Schedule 40 pipe should be a "slip fit" on the next size...you can find the actual ID/OD sizes of various pipe sizes on the internet. Keep in mind that steel pipe and steel tubings are two completely different beasts in regards to how the dimensions are listed. If not mistaken steel tubing measures from the OD while the various pipe sizes measure from the ID.
The base is a piece of 3 inch x 9 inch wide solid bar stock The pipe that slips over it, supporting the gin pole and tower is a piece of sch 80 4inch pipe.
as to your other question I dont think 4.5 inch size pipe is very common...its out there but you would probably have to order it...ouch
I still have some more welding to do...a few things in those photos are not completely finished.
all the best,
Gavin