It is unlikely that you will manage it without specialist equipment. It is most unlikely that you will be able to get anywhere near the field strength required without resorting to capacitor discharge methods.
You can do it by taking it above its Curie temperature which I seem to remember is about 450 deg C, but I am not sure if there is permanent damage done.
Large neos will partly magnetise ceramics, but not to saturation. To fully magnetise you need about 100,000 amp turns per metre length of magnet so allowing for losses you will need near 10,000 AT to fully saturate it.
If you are trying to produce a multipole pattern on it as Marlec do, you needn't de magnetise it first.
Have fun
Flux