Arny...It may be simpler than that.
You can try three different systems easily. If you are familiar with electric control as you mentioned earlier, you will notice that in machines with a "green on button and a red stop buttom" they use a momentry On switch and a relay to electrically latch that On signal "on" after the button is released . This technique will suffice for the start button, so that switch debounce and non-starting on its own occurs.. (if you used a switch for start, and the motor stops, it will try starting again....if the engine stalls or is stopped for any other reason.... run out of feul etc. then you would have to turn the start switch off after starting sequence.)
The next problem to solve is the how to turn start signal off after speed is attained.
In the above Machine stop start sequence, the stop button interupts the latching circuit, and so the relay collapses, and we are back to the off condition at the beginning. Here we will have used a double pole normally open relay. One pole to latch the start signal, and one pole to drive the start relay... so pressing momentry start switch, latches in the signal, and pulls in the start relay...... now how to stop the start signal..
We can use manifold vacuume, so that as vacuum increases in the manifold, a vac switch will interrupt the start latch the same way as the stop buttom would have in the machine scenario. This is simple and any old car will have a vac switch involved in the machine management system somewhere..... The switch needs to be a normally closed device that opens when vac increases. This switch contact replaces the stop button in the machine example.... You will also find useful ones from the fill system in washing machines that sense the water level via water/air pressure.
Another way is to use the 240v ac alt output to open a 240v relay (will probably open at around 70v) and use this to open the latched start circuit. The drawback here is how long the alt takes to generate a relay voltage high enough to shut off the start latch.
Yet another way is to use the cooling air from the motor to move an air switch, and so when rpm increases, it pushes an air panel (on a lever) to depress a micro switch to shut off the start latch.... This system is used extensively as a control mechanism in the portable gas space heaters to check for fan velocity or airway obsruction before allowing ignition sequence to start... so it is not so off the wall as it sounds, and is really pretty idiotproof...
Once the latching circuit is stopped by what ever method, only by pressing the start button can it re-activate.
Personally, the vacuume system is the smallest and uses off the shelf parts off any car.
...........oztules