First:
You do not have a buck-boost converter. You Have a BUCK converter.
Second:
Your communication is in rambles not well defined and not clearly stated.
Third:
A bad choice using transformers attached to wind mill, this indicates that your electrical and electronic experience is quite limited.
Fourth:
If you are going to build an Axial generator, build it producing the higher initial voltage necessary for proper operation and NO transformers.
Fifth:
In this case, do not use such Buck converter, get one with MPPT (Maximum Power Point Tracking) and the proper final high voltage of the generator plus a safety increment capability.
Sixth:
A well designed converter now a days does not require such a high idle current, the one You have chosen is geared for a more robust power systems.
Seventh:
Yes and Not. Connection to the battery to supply the idle current is possible but normally it is not advantageous to do, to avoid discharging the battery, it is best to draw the power from the wind.
Eighth:
Back to your Buck converter You said:
>They need about 100-150 watts on an average to produce power at 20 volts, 400 rpm. My windmill would probably yield about 20 watts at 40 rpm.
WRONG, this clearly indicates that you do not have the proper electronic principles
The converter needs, as you defined by the 100 ma, about, 11.5 volts per data sheet and around 1.2 watts to starting to work and just a bit higher input voltage than the battery voltage.
The wind mill, at 40 RPM, is producing 20 watts then the converter may be able to convert around 18 - 19 watts into the load if the generator voltage is about 2 - 3 volts higher than the battery voltage.
So produce the voltage, then the amps = convertible watts.
Nando