Hi,
For what it is worth, here are two suggestions:
Oatley in Aussie is selling a kit, from memory it goes up to 300 W.
http://www.oatleyelectronics.com/
I must say that the Picaxe solution seems to be still the solution with the least amount of components and if you are more of a software person than a hardware person with a black-belt in electrickery, then the Picaxe solution from
http://www.thebackshed.com/Windmill/Links.asp
is ideal. Contributor Jimovonz from NZ has developed a similar schematic without using optoisolation, but at the moment he is measuring V, A and RPM and does not switch a relay on/off for the load like "gizmo" at the backshed. But the logic in pseudocode:
IF voltage > 14.4V THEN switch on the dummy load
IF voltage < 11.0 THEN switch the dummy load off
is easily implemented with jimovonz's minimal schematic.
This solutions give you V, A and RPM and load shedding.
I do not wish to detract from commanda's excellent solution to the problem; it requires more electronic skills than I possess.
Cheers,