Ok. According to the EPA, it appears that mercury is more deadly than the black plague, and is therefore extremely difficult (I avoid 'impossible' since seeing missile silos on ebay) to find them anywhere, even on the internet.
Unfortunately, two of the classic SPDT mercury switches for thermostats would make excellent candidates for a toggling, snap-action limit switch design that I conjured up for the self powered tracker project.
Anybody have any ideas? I know there are 'replacements', like ball switches, but they have a tendency to have accuracy issues (meaning they can be finicky).
The best I have come up with myself is one of those sub-mini Radio Shack toggle switches with a fairly stiff spring attached to the lever to provide positive snap-action, but there may be force issues there. 
Also saw one teaser, a 'plunger' type microswitch. Looks like it toggles, but I cant seem to find it in anything but SPST!!!! The MS3 series, top left of the page --- http://www.switch-china.com/en/Product.asp?BigClassName=MICRO%20SWITCH
In the end, the crucial specs are:
DPDT
Break before make
VERY low force
Snap action
All contacts must switch at as close to ideal in timing as possible
Must be mechanical, semiconductor losses (even FET) are too great to be of use
Oh yeah, and a kitchen sink. Thanks ahead of time all... 
Steve