A lot of information is twisted because people try to apply the theory based on series batteries to parallel batteries.
I have read where people believed a 12V 10AH battery paralleled with a 12V 100AH battery will drain the 10AH first.
Somehow they based this line of thought on the load amps being evenly split between the 2 batteries. It seemed to become a self perpetuating wife's tale for a while.
In fact, the parallel batteries will always be at the same voltage.
They are in parallel, so they have to be the same voltage, meaning one is just as charged or dead as the other. (as long as they are the same type)
Series batteries of different AH is not a good idea.
Could use two 12V dump load controllers I suppose. One on each battery.
Swapping out 12V batteries from a 24V bank begs the question "Why have a 24V charging system with separate 12V loads, and who wants to baby sit and swap batteries?"
G-