I've considered the phase alignment thing before, and even apply caution when this isn't a factor.
Many people, upon realizing they've unplugged the wrong cord from a power strip (for example), will plug it back in as soon as they realize its the wrong one, which can be rather quick sometimes. As if getting it plugged back in immediately would 'abort' the effects of losing power to whatever it was that lost it.
Little do they know that even that alone can cause damage, depending on what lost juice. Unless its an incandescent light bulb or other purely resistive load, there's a good chance that it underwent some stress in the process.
For this reason, I've gotten into the habit of holding the plug just 'outside' the outlet for a few seconds (in case I took my source of light with it
) and regardless of what died from the disconnect, if it was the wrong device, it comes up from scratch rather than potentially damaging it.
Before I got religious about UPS units, I built several 'dropout' switches designed as electrically latching so that if a glitch was long enough to be a problem for a piece of equipment, it let the relay drop out, and the load completely lost power until manually reset.
Taking this idea further, when I first looked into using a generator with a changeover, I came up with an idea of a worm driven (via a motor) actuator that would take a few seconds to change over, eliminating changeover glitches, sticking contacts, flashover, and dv/dt issues from phase sync as well.
Never built the thing, haven't had the chance yet, but I'm throwing it out here because someone can probably build it sooner than I can.
Steve