FauxFox,
You're getting great advice about the hook-up and speed matching issues so I can't add much there.
You did have other questions, and I don't think anyone has brought them up.
The rectifiers, batteries, charge controllers and what's often called the "balance of the system" is something that you can design and fit together when you know the purpose and needs of the system. If you set out to make a back-up power system for your house, that's one thing, if you want to try the grid-tie revenue thing, then that's different. Either one you can do with the turbine you build (in most cases).
Option 1In battery power systems you should have at a minimum a shut-off switch, a voltage regulator, and over-current protection fuses or breakers, apart from the batteries of course. Naturally there is also a load of some sort, meaning the way the energy is used so let's say it's an inverter to run AC loads. No matter what size or what voltage of battery you arrange for, or the size of the loads you need to power, or the size of the energy source (within some limits) you're going to be juggling these main pieces to a wind-turbine system.
For example, small bridge rectifiers like the kind you get at Radio Shack do not last long in wind-turbine use, in my experience. Even ones rated 30-40 Amps I've been able to melt down with ~20 due to, among other things, not heat-sinking it well. Now I have an old 3-phase rectifier rated at 100 Amps. It is very easy to hook up and has lots of surface area to mate with the heat sink.
Option 2You don't need any of them if you are going to feed a grid-tie inverter. Within limits, it can take the wild 3-phase AC and make it into useful AC to sell back.
Option 3You have an unusual source for your "do-it-yourself" project. It doesn't exactly suit the usual purpose, so there may be an
unusual purpose you can put it to. All that stuff about batteries and so on is just one way to make practical use of a WT. How about high-voltage uses such as heating, or something really fancy like pumping water to a cistern at the cottage (instead of running a gasoline pump)? I've no experience with either to add than just the ideas themselves.
Option 4Sell it to the electric car people and pocket the cash!