Hi
I watched your video (the ice formations are funny
) ) but there's something important that I couldn't see.
It all sounds like schedule 40 sizes, and in fact I used schedule 40 pipe in my tower, too. One thing to beware of is the grade of steel in the pipe. You want it to be a structural grade, like ASTM A53 or A106. If you're getting pipe and you can't read a specification printed on it, you don't have structural pipe. Without that spec, the pipe can be so bad that you can fracture it by striking it with a hammer. That kind may be OK for plumbing water, but no good for your tower.
If the pipe you buy has these specs, then you can work safely with them and get good results doing things like machining/drilling/welding parts.
As for raising towers, all I can say is don't work beyond your knowledge and confidence. Because I've been on the Fieldlines site for many years, I've seen towers that have collapsed and been dropped during raising or during storms. If you're not willing to learn everything you need to know to do it safely then you shouldn't be doing it. Now, I don't know if you're the chief engineer at Rohn Towers Inc. or not, so I hope you can appreciate that the only reason I'd take a firm line on this is because this is where your safety is at stake. If you're doing the work it takes, then the public safety announcements can stop.