ok at the risk of being soundly lashed by the admin
i will try and word this in a family appropriate way..
there is a common rule in most homes,
"if momma ain't happy, nobody is going to be happy"
and
"she who controls the #$@%& "IS" the boss"
perhaps things might get a bit colder than he likes until he is ready to
meet you on some middle ground?
i have no idea how things work in your house, but
perhaps his soup will be a bit watered down for a while, with the explanation being
the electric bill is so high you had to cut back somewhere. or even better than that!
tell him that your hobby has changed,, you want to start cooking different recipe's
and start cooking with alot of tofu, and other crap that he won't like...
as they say the path to a man's heart is thru his stomach,,, maybe the path to his brain follows the same trail?
i suspect that you are a sharp gal and can figure more than a few ways of getting this job done...
i just wish my luck with women was as good as your hubby,,,, most i have been involved with have had no problem getting their way, using whatever form of manipulation that was within their imaginations 
good luck,, don't give up
we are all pullin for ya!
bob g