Thanks for all the helpful replys....I wasn't even aware that HF had a kit for this....
and my goodness! a candle and a nail ! I imagine a heavy duty would be a bigger
candle and nail ?

....but you're right it doesn't take much heat even to melt the
edge of the nice table cloth which I accidently done as I was unplugging the soldering pencil
( Oh crap ^(&&%^ ! ....as I hurriedly cut the edge of the damaged area with the
scissors .....
she'll never know ?
I had a thought....since the replaceable copper of the soldering tip is like 6 or 8 guage
copper I could use a longer piece and would disappate some of the heat before it got
to the tip ?
Norm