I try and make a habit of introducing myself when I join a new web forum.
My name is Stuart. I do software engineering work for a living, but I've taken care of my own mechanical/electrical/construction/health-management/etc...for years. I am long-term married with mostly adult children these days. I am on schedule for my first grandchild by the new year.
I am planning on parking myself and my immediate family on some acreage in Kansas this summer. I desire to be off-grid, and will be off-grid by necessity at first anyway...since the local utility companies are all cooperatives to which it takes three months or more to connect.
I will be initially doing a bank of deep cycle batteries and an inverter to provide "necessary" electricity, and tailoring my place for minimum electricity need. We will be cooking and heating with wood. I will start with the inefficient gasoline powered generator for replenishment of battery charge, but will soon be adding a windmill or two or three (space is NOT an issue) and some solar cells. What will probably happen more quickly is to power the internal combustion engine generator with biomass gasification...I have friends who are doing this now with their cars and with stationary combined heat and power (CHP) units, so the information and experience is readily available. Scrap wood will be plentiful as well, so handling it will be the biggest issue. That and the fact that I work out of town during the week.
I will also be setting up a cistern/storage-tank based water system and hauling in water initially, replacing it with captured rainwater as soon as I have the roof space...the water utility is a cooperative like the electricity, and the cost of a water meter is prohibitive...besides the fact that I'm not particularly open to ingesting (or even bathing with) whatever chemicals the rural water coop feels the need to add to make the water "safe". I plan on starting off with an outhouse and setting up a dry-mulching toilet as soon as possible...of course, that is what an "outhouse" is anyway...the simplest dry mulching toilet imaginable.
Anyway, what I hope to accomplish here is to learn from other's mistakes, and to let others learn from mine.
To borrow a phrase from a well known tinkerer, "I haven't failed 10,000 times. I have successfully determined 10,000 ways it doesn't work."