Amen.
I too switched my first page to 'Everything'. I think that there are some bugs on the frontpage, for example, if you post in 'Controls', it seems that the posts dissappear from the frontpage after a few minutes. That's why I now go to 'Everything', su that's what I want, everything. Seems unfair that some people will get lots of comments because their post is on the front page, and others get almost nothing because of some bug.
Anyway, got me pretty upset too. It seems that any time you post a complaint about your posts being removed fromt he front page, there are always people who are only too glad to jump in and say abviously your post wasn't good enough, and all that other negative crap. But don't worry :-), it's not that your post is not 'worthy of the front page', more likely no one removed it intentionally, but it was actually a bug.
And so again I say, everyone switch the the 'Everything' page. Display Preferences, and your good to go.
Don't forget to smile,
Cheers,
Stephen.