Agreed,
I have used the Sam's Club 6V golf cart batteries for several years. Had I spent my first dollars on some Rolls or equal I surely would have ruined them too, it just would have taken a little longer, maybe. I feel these are good batteries for the money, and until one learns how to give batteries the TLC they demand the value curve flattens quickly between these and more expensive batteries.
If and when I get my system like I really want it I will have some nice expensive batteries that will last 10 years, and I can quit messin' with the system and worrying 'bout batteries and their state of charge, temperature and specific gravity and post connections and fusing and and and...
I'll have enough solar and wind to store the power for longer and more of it. Even then I imagine I'll go with some really thick plate flooded type, like the "jar" 2V cells or fork lift batteries, and have a mid range 48V storage voltage.
Ah to dream.
Until then I'll probably buy one more set of the 6V like I already have, maybe expanding the amp hr capacity by 20-30%, by the start of summer. I'll have 4 years on the current set, and pretty hard off grid use and abuse. Adding to the capacity of the bank and more solar and wind input will help (which I plan to implement before fall). In the end the batteries are always the weak point in the system. Flooded lead acid batteries, while tough, can be killed quickly too, and I've been there and done that, but until a more economical choice is provided I cannot justify another type of battery than the good old lead acid flooded type.