Hi Robin,
Do you have turnbuckles installed in the guy wires? How about some over-center tighteners? Either way, you can make an estimate of the tension in the wire by the torque required to tighten each of them. Set up a test in your garage/basement or wherever you can hang heavy stuff from the ceiling.
For example, hang a dead weight of about 500 pounds from a turnbuckle. Crank it tight with a wrench, lifting the weight off the floor. Pull on the end of the wrench with a spring-scale. A box-end wrench is perfect for hooking on spring scales. You now know the force, the arm, hence the torque on the wrench you used to tighten enough to raise the 500 pounds load. You can repeat that in the field as you tighten the cables on the tower. Needless to say, if you use the same wrench every time, you'll get a feel for it.
Bear in mind that as you tighten one cable, you also tighten the opposite on the other side at the same time. They are, roughly, always going to have the same tension. What can go wrong is shortening one cable as you tighten it, and then the tower is crooked. Looks funny, and over-stresses the tower.
Your tower is about the same size as mine. Hope it's got 1/4" guy wires with 7x19 construction on it. I wouldn't trust any less. A cable pre-tension of 500 pounds (200 kg) is enough for an 8 foot windmill (2.4m) diameter. Scale up or down as appropriate.