"Yes it will be very expensive for me . . . but my children will live for free!"
No, they will say let's sell out, grab the money, move to a city, think they are rich for 2 years, then wonder why they ever did such a dumb thing when the Feul bills roll in and they have no money left.
Don't worry so much about life, you won't survive it anyway
Now that the jokes are out of the way, you are smart to be planning ahead.
First I would suggest looking at the type of home you plan to build and where it will be. That will be the largest factor of the amount of heat you will need. An under ground house in Nevada will use far less heat I think than a 2 story in Main or Rhode Island.
Personally I would like to live in a cave
Seriously! I have been in many caves. Silver Dollar City, Branson MO. A reely nice clean one in Springfield MO. and cleaned nicly a good cave is great. The one in Springfield, MO I was in was at one time an old speak easy I think they said, then it was a theater at one time. Now it is a tourist trap
Think about it, a cave stays nice and cool in summer no Air conditionare needed. A cave stays nice and warm in winter, a bit cool, moderate heat needed. Some caves are a bit damp perhaps. Well heres a great thought, move a nicely insulated trailer house into a cave. You have the best of everything right. Low heating, no cooling needs. No storm worries, caves are toronado proof prety much. You got a house insulated in a warm weather proof place. You need to run in power lines from the wind genny and your all set
I am pretty serious there. Find a nice hillside and dig your own cave, real caves are hard to find availble to buy reasonable.
So like I said, you need to study the house and location your planning, and figure real power needs based on that. Your Kwhr is probably way off base if your going to build a new modern home and have any intention of being energy efficeint at all. Like you mention Hydrogen? Ok what are you thinking of using that for, and why electrolisis anyway. Solar hot water heating could do wonders for warming the house, even if not toally heating it, thus cutting down on electric needs for heating.
If your planning for the future, why figure only one massive large wind gennie? Plan 3 gennies of 4Kwr each instead of 1 for 12Khr. Sooner or later you will need to take it down to clean it, check for loose parts, general maintinance stuff. With 3 gennies flying your never without power even if you have one down for a few days. With one genny only you got a problem if a crazed flock of geese attack it suddenly and break a blade. Would take a mighty large and determined flock of geese to take down 3 mills at once though.
Got to eat, foods done. Another energy waste. Got a hot wood burner heating the house, wifes uses propane stove. Oh well, good food anyway.