Here are some of my thoughts about it all.
# Make the air gap bigger- I think it lowers the torque needed to turn the prop, so it would not "brake" the generator as much.
Yes. Opening the airgap will do two things. It will increase the cutin speed, and it will reduce the volts/rpm - since its not changing the resistance it will not decrease the efficiency of the alternator but it will reduce the power you get at any given rpm. I would open the airgap if the cutin speed is too low.
# Put thinner wires from genny to batteries
This will not change the cutin speed, and will have a very minor affect on output at low levels, but decrease the efficiency of the system especially at higher output levels. It will somewhat flatten the power curve so to speak -but leave things fairly unchanged in low winds/low rpm. This is what Id do if the machine had the right cutin speed, but started stalling worse and worse as windspeed increased (the alternator has the proper cutin speed, but becomes too powerful for the blades in higher winds).
# Put some resistor in series from the genny to the battery.
Same thing as running thinner wires from teh generator to the batteries really.
# Put smaller prop on the generator.
This would make it stall worse. Your generator is allready too slow, you would want a larger prop. The problem is though - if your alternator is sized well for the blades you have, but you wound it such that the cutin speed is too slow, then the resistance of the alternator is such that larger blades would overpower it. Larger blades would probably startup better/stall less, but then they'd probably overspeed - and overpower the alternator putting your blades, and your alternator at risk. But sometimes it is a solution. Alternators Ive made which were too powerful for the blades we either put on slightly bigger blades - or, did a combination of opening the airgap and adding a bit resistance to the line.
# Do something with the coils. But I'm still not shure what?
You can switch to Delta. I recall talking w/you about this before. You had thought that by winding a machine for 24 volts that youd pickup power in low winds if you were charging at 12. This doesn't usually work, because your cutin speed is so slow that the blades can never get up to speed. If @ 24 volts you were cutting in at reasonable windspeed, like 7 mph or so - then at 12V your 'cutin speed' might want to happen at 3.5 mph - when the power in the wind is so little that it can barely even make your blades turn at all. In that case - the blades have no chance. Your alternator, being wound for 24 volts now (lots of turns of thin wire) has resistance way too high for a 12V machine (4 x the resistance if you have twice the windings with wire twice as thick). In this case - adding resistance to the line would not make sense, and opening the airgap way up might help get things started, but it will be dismally inefficient in higher winds (the blade will run away and youll get very little power - the alternator might overheat). Your best bet here, with the 2 meter blade is to probably rewind for a proper cutin speed, or - you might try putting what you have into Delta/see how that works. If I recall, you said you allready had a wide airgap, and you wanted to charge @ 12V and you had a cutin speed around 120 rpm. Delta would surely improve things, but I think you have way too many windings in there and much too fine of wire.