You seem to be on the right lines but there is not enough detail to fully understand your problem. I assume it is a brushless dc pump or some inverter drive to an ac motor.
No details of the wind turbine, does it furl or have some form of power limiting in high winds.
The pwm load should work as long as you can get rid of all the spikes. The voltage is high for most pwm controllers and it would seem extravagant to use something like a MX60 for such an application but it could possibly e programmed to do it.
Does your extra load keep the thing below 300v in all conditions, if there is no furling or other control it wouldn't take a lot of wind to double the power out and it may produce over 2kW . Don't know what the pump takes so I have no idea what % of full load your 1kW is.
I can only assume the thing was intended to be loaded by the pump under all conditions but you give no pump details. A centrifugal pump properly chosen and running at variable speed should load the thing. Restrictions in pipe size or wrong choice of pump would result in a limit on pump load at high speed.
I can't think of a commercial controller but the idea is ok with either pwm or even a linear dump regulator but you may have to build it.
You may in fact get away with no pwm, the wind switch had no chance but a static relay dumping your extra load on at 120v may be ok. The turbine will slow and the load come off, then it will pick up speed and the relay come on again. This is effectively a very low frequency pwm. It may work better with more than one stage.
This is nothing more than a heating load controller, not much details about it here but there has been a bit of discussion. Hugh Piggott has a heating controller circuit on his site using triacs and that may well work if you connect it to the ac terminals of the alternator.
Flux