I haven't tried grid tied metering...
In theory you would use the grid as your battery....
The meter would spin forward at night (low wind) and backward during the day (high wind)....
Depending on the size of your system, at the end of the month that you would probably still owe a bit of dough, as well as all ordinary connect fees (or, if you have annual averaging, you could average net surplus/loss over the entire year).
One would hope that the buyback/exchange would be 100% up to the point where there would be a net surplus.
But, with the grid tie, you wouldn't have to maintain a battery bank (mixed blessing as you might not have the ability to change over to backup power in case of a power outage and NO LIGHT and NO WIND).
My problem is that my panels don't generate enough power to run my inverter 24x7 so I try to keep it turned off as much as possible....
Another option.... not quite sure of the circuitry, but perhaps it could be designed relatively easily....
120V --> Battery Bank when batts < 11.5V
Solar/Wind --> Battery Bank up to 12.6 V or high resistance, then dump to your dump load (for wind).
Pull straight 12V off of your batteries to run the lights, heater, and pumps (without using an inverter)
Again, this would be designed so that you would be isolated from the grid (assuming you didn't have large amounts of surplus electricity), and thus you wouldn't have to worry about expensive grid-tie inverters and inverter loss and etc.
I think some of the UPS Systems work off a similar principle of feeding power into a battery bank while running an inverter and drawing power off of the battery bank, and thus have a 0ms switch-over time.