Now that i've actually done it and it went well .. I will add this this thread that I originally started :
BASICALLY, I used mostly Ghurd's advice : MAKE SURE THE NEUTRAL WIRE IS NOT GROUNDED.
As simple as that.
I got my multimeter, and checked for continuity between the ground and neutral.
There WAS continuity.
So then I looked for how to disconnect them. In this case, unlike what Ghurd said but like what others said, the grounds were already on their own little bus bar, so I didn't disconnect them, I just had to find that big Screw that connected (apparently) the ground to the neutral. Once that was removed, no more continuity ! (Thanks to the person who mentioned the Green Screw, cause it would have taken alot longer to find what was connecting the neutral to ground)
Then I simply connected the inverter to the IN of the fuse panel and everything worked !! YAY !!!
TomW is right : Once it's there in front of you, it's pretty simple .. I was doing all this without seeing what I was going to be working with but I had to ask these things in advance cause once there, I have no internet, no phone, no nothing ..
Thanks for all the great advise from everyone !