Hi Norm , with caps ya dont want to exceed the voltage stamped on them.
With my two 1Farad 14V caps , i would charge them up to battery voltage with the Exergen , then connect them to the battery , else they would spark like mad if the voltage difference was too great.
You will find that using caps does indeed even out the power going to the batteries. The more Farads that you have , the more voltage they will store till the batteries can absorb it.
Caps in parallel add like resistors in series , below is a link ya may find informative
http://www.tpub.com/neets/book2/3e.htmMy two single farad caps hooked in parallel added up to Two Farads total.