Hello,
This isn't my first tower base excavation, but this is the first time I've had difficulty with water - and exposes how little I know about civil engineering.

Someone with more experience with excavations might have some suggestions to improve what I've got here.
Reason #1 for the tower tower in my backyard is to get high-speed internet in my remote rural location for less than 200 dollars a month. From the ground I can see only one cell provider's tower (the expensive option). At 45 feet up, I should get a signal from a lower-cost provider with unlimited bandwidth for 1/4 the cost. Reason #2... well, a small wind turbine can't hurt, right?
The tower is a self-supporting steel truss, 40 feet tall with a 6 foot extension tube on top. The manufacturer of the tower provides an installation sheet for the do-it-yourselfers like me. The minimum required base is about 5' x 5' x 4'deep. For those who want to see more tower details, a google search of "DMXHD-40N" will give multiple hits from the OEM and various distributors of the tower.
Things started to go wrong on the day I excavated the hole. The actual excavation went smoothly (mini-excavator from Home Depot did the job in 1.5 hours). But it was pouring rain the whole time. Following that downpour came another heavy rain that added up to about 60 mm of rain. This is very unusual for Calgary, by the way. Just my luck. The pit filled with 2 feet of water, receiving not only the direct rainfall but also run-off from the garage roof which I didn't think of diverting. I sump-pumped it to 6 inches and allowed another week for it to dry out.

This weekend I tried putting in the gravel base, but I was dismayed to find that the gravel never became firm. It just adopted the texture of mud. By hand, I dug down to see what was underneath. The gravel/mud mix was about 6" deep, below that was like clay, and below that seemed to be sand. Then why did it take a week to drain the last few inches of the water? I'm thinking the sand is so fine, and mixed with clay, that it can't drain quickly. Even though it looks and feels like sand. Pressed between my fingers the deepest sand is granular, and does not smear mud on my fingertips. Why didn't it drain water from above? I do not know where the water table is, but this hole at the bottom of the excavation added up to 6 feet below grade and it did not fill with water.

Another thing that happened while packing the gravel, where it would pack, is that it seems to "float". This is hard to describe - it's like I'm standing on a waterbed and when I push my foot down, some other spot pushes up. This is hardly a solid footing for a 10,000 pound concrete block!
Is there a way to improve this gravel base?
What are the odds that by excavating the hole deeper I will find more solid footing?
Should I abandon the hole entirely and locate the tower elsewhere?