Hi Paulo,
Nice drawing by the way, It is exactly what I had envisioned from your description.
First, A washing machine pump?? WOW that can be as much as 17gpm.... thats a lot of water flowing. I have tried running them at low rpm using small 12v motors and you don't get much useful flow out of them. I think they rely heavily on centrifugal force.
So if I understand, your system tank isn't pressurized??
So here is my best effort at an explanation of thermodynamics involved. The greatest exchange of heat (heat transfer) occurs with the greatest temperature differential. If the air circulates too fast then the temperature "equalizes" in the system this lowers the temperature differential between the "absorber" (your small radiator) and the air temp. Not good. you want to take the highest temp air you can out of he collector and run that across the absorber.
Same holds true for the water circulation. If you circulate the water too fast then the water temperature equalises throughout the tank and absorber. This causes a higher absorber temperature and lowers the transfer rate. If you allow gravity to circulate the water then you will get the coldest water out of the bottom of the tank and that gives the greatest temperature differential. Keep the radiator as close as possible to the tank and make sure supply's are as straight as possible and no smaller than the dia. of the tubing in the radiator. Use ball or gate valves and not washer type supply valves. If you don't have any system pressure you can get good cheap pvc valves used in pool construction.
You asked...... "Air Speed - is Ventilator Speed Control useful?"
Temperature differential becomes more of an issue as you approach equilibrium of water and air temp. So if the air is circulating too fast you will get an air temp about the same as the water temp. Circulate the air slower and the top of the collector gets very hot then you can get a few more degrees of water temp:-)
You asked...."Flapper doors: these could be mounted inside the solar panel, right?"
Yep, thats where I'd put them. Would flatten out some aluminum Coke (or Beer)cans to get light thin sheet stock.
I ran your idea past a friend who does HVAC designs and he suggested... use a small 12v solar panel + muffin fan to circulate the air. I think the fan would have to be in the "cold" (return air) side as you have drawn. His thought was that if there is sun the air circulates. Muffin fan might melt in the Hot (top) side.
I also might suggest you consider using corrugated roofing painted black in the collector and circulate the air above and below the metal sheet to get better solar to air absorption. This is used in almost all heat absorption air panels I have seen.
Your idea of using the same air to provide space heating would work if you would wait until you get the water temp where you want it then divert excess heated air to space heating..... however... your control system suddenly got a whole lot more complicated. Also you would then need to filter the air to keep dust out of the collector which will reduce its efficiency. Also if the moisture level is high in the structure then collector fogging and residual condensation in the system becomes a problem.
Another thing you may want to consider.... depending on age and source of engine type radiators is they have high lead content. Very bad if the hot water is sanitary and probably not good for you bathing in it either. Back when I did the Laundromat system we still had lead plumbing in service in many homes in US...LOL "The good ol days...."
Keep me posted on your progress....
Juddley