"!as far as the frame, rotors , bearings and all go it turns
fine when no load is applied, with the stator disconnected
it spins up well into the 5 , 6 hunderd range in 20 - 25
mph winds, but if ya hook the load up it's a bear to spin
it by hand.."
This seems to imply that there is not much wrong with the stator.
The only way to find out what is wrong is to do some logical tests.
You need to do these on the alternator and you will probably have to remove the prop.
Join the 3 starts, you have 3 leads (finishes) to play with. Turn the thing at a known speed by hand (120rpm is easy for counting) it should be perfectly free( you say it is)
Measure the AC volts between each pair of leads, should be the same.(meter on AC volts)
Now short all 3 leads, it should be a bear to turn and the drag should be smooth. Disconnect one lead and it should be hard to turn but you should feel it turn in discrete lumps.
If all these steps are ok then your alternator is working properly.
Connect the rectifier to the ac leads but leave the dc terminals open. It should still turn with no resistance and no signs of lumpiness.If you have any resistance or lumpiness then you have a scrap rectifier.
Now measure the dc out of the rectifier ( meter on dc volts), it should be 50% higher than the AC volts that you measured earlier. Short the dc connections and it should be stiff and smooth to turn. If it pulses it shows a rectifier problem.
Once you know the alternator is working properly it is time to see that it is matched to your prop.
Come back with that dc voltage out of the rectifier and the speed you turned it at and also details of your prop.
From your description you seem to have connected the alternator ok. Your 1/2" air gap should be ok. I am beginning to suspect a duff rectifier.
Flux