Lots of storage and a big inverter are for running any devices that are unavoidably high drain but only used intermittently (such as wells). Then you need enough generation to keep the storage up and you're done. B-)
But you'll want to replace or deconfigure any electric heating appliances or functions. Example: Disable the water-temperature boosting and electric drying parts of a dishwasher. Run your water heater to a temperature adequate for sanitation and let the dishes air-dry. Dump an electric dryer, stove, or oven. (You might keep the microwave if you don't use it to roast turkeys, but dump the toaster-oven.) Dump any electric space heaters. Dump the electric air conditioner (unless you can afford to pave your yard with PV panels and fill a spare garage stall with batteries).
Exception: If you have a big mill and can configure your heating appliances - especially space heating or bulk water heating - as optional dump loads, accepting that they'll only run when the wind is high and the batteries up. Wind tends to be high in many weather conditions when heating is needed so it's a good match, cutting down the fuel use on whatever you use to heat on calm days and fine-tune your temperature.
For the rest, check how often it's used, for how long, what it costs to replace it with something lower-drain, and what it costs for enough extra generation and storage to cover the difference. Then you can decide whether to keep it, replace it, or do without it.
And if you're going off-grid and you have some big-drain items that you use occasionally but for long enough chunks of time that extra storage off your alternative energy collectors isn't a good option, that's what gasoline or diesel backup gennies are for. B-)
