It sounds like you are well on your way. Getting the whole family involved is a must.
Be aware that for a renewable energy system, most agree that it is advisable to only run out 20-25 percent of a battery bank's total Amp hour rating.
One small point: It sounds like you ran out over 90 percent of the Amp hour power out of the two car batteries with the fan test. Those two batteries probably won't last more than a month or two if you kept doing that. It is the same with deep cycle batteries also. Batteries should last for years if you treat them right and only discharge 25 percent of their power (AH) ratings.
Damon's example of CONSERVING energy is very good example of the "Renewable energy lifesyle". It is quite a different lifestyle than everyone else's. One must have accurate, realistic expectations of whats possible.
Everyone's specific situation and even 'Idea' of Renewable energy is somewhat different though it seems to me. It all depends if a person lives alone in a small one room cabin or if one lives in a 1400Sq. ft. house with wife and 3 kids.
The example given by Jonas302 about the terrible waste of just one direct TV box (while turned off) is a good one. 25 watts x 24 hours a day = 600 Watthour(!!) of power each day.
That is like letting a hairdryer run for half and hour each day for no reason!
My family has 4 of those horrible Direct TV boxes. I at least turn mine on and off each day. And there are many other 'Phantom loads' that waste enormous power each day.
Another good example is that power wasting 132Watt fan you mentioned.
If that ran 24 hours a day it is 3168 Watthour. (Or; 3.1 KWH per day!!!)
I estimated that it takes 8 KWH per day for hot water (40 gal.electric hotwater tank/9000watts both elements) for 4 adult persons.
So many of those box fans are VERY substantial wasters of power.
You might consider making a Super-efficient 5Watt fan like I did here:
http://www.fieldlines.com/story/2007/3/10/23942/1876
It puts out about the same air but only at 120 Watthour each day! I could run the thing on flashlight batteries all night if I wanted to!
There are many, many more ways to CONSERVE a LOT of power each day without much (or,any) sacrifice, if you put your mind to it.
So keep learning and conserving!
Sounds like you are off to a good start.